Ask For and Give LinkedIn Recommendations
While giving a presentation on social media at Margie Dana’s (@margiedana) 4th Annual Print Buyers Conference, I stressed the importance of asking for Recommendations via LinkedIn. One gentleman raised his hand to ask, “Aren’t Recommendations artificial?”
He based his assumption on the fact that sales people from other companies were asking for his personal Recommendation — and he felt uncomfortable giving it because he didn’t think they deserved a Recommendation.

He brought up a good question — one that we in room spent a few minutes talking about, with the consensus being that like testimonials, Recommendations go far in building credibility.
So what are the “rules” when asking for LinkedIn Recommendations? And, if you work in corporate, can or should you ask for Recommendations from co-workers and others?
Yes, you can ask for Recommendations no matter what your job. What follows are a few simple rules regarding asking for – and giving – LinkedIn Recommendations:
1. Don’t be afraid to ask!
The beauty of LinkedIn is that it has become perfectly acceptable to ask for Recommendations. In fact, I find it easier to ask for a Recommendation than I ever did asking for a testimonial. (Now I simply cut and paste Recommendations from LinkedIn to my Website’s testimonial page.)
2. Ask for a Recommendation anytime you finish a project
If you’re in corporate, ask your co-workers, vendors, and customers (if applicable) for Recommendations when you complete external and internal projects. Also consider asking former co-workers and supervisors for Recommendations, too.
The same advice applies to small business owners, consultants and freelancers. I will often connect with people on LinkedIn once they become a client. When the project is finished, I’ll contact the person via LinkedIn in order to ask for a Recommendation.
If you volunteer, don’t forget to ask board or committee members for their Recommendations -– and if you speak, ask conference managers (or whoever hired you) to give you a Recommendation. I even had a workshop attendee give me an unsolicited Recommendation!
3. Offer to Recommend others
If someone provides you with wonderful service or completes a project that exceeds your expectations, write a glowing Recommendation for this person. One, this person will be eternally grateful to you, and two, you’ll spread goodwill, which will return to you at some later time.
4. Ask for Recommendations regularly
Instead of waiting until you’re laid off to build out your LinkedIn Profile, do it now –- by asking for Recommendations. I’ve heard too many hiring managers say that one of the first things they do is look at people’s Profiles when perusing resumes. Having solid Recommendations placed on your Profile over time (versus all in same time period) shows you’re a team player, an active networker –- and someone who “gets” social media.
5. Don’t be afraid to say “no”
As I stated in my Print Buyers presentation, it’s ok to say “no” to requests for Recommendations, especially if you feel the person doesn’t merit a Recommendation or if you and the person doing the asking have a weak connection. You can simply write back, “I don’t feel comfortable giving you a Recommendation at this time.”
Whether you work for a company or for yourself, Recommendations are a great way to build credibility and trust with others. If you have other tips about LinkedIn Recommendations, be sure to add them in the comments section below!
Other articles about LinkedIn:
Using LinkedIn’s Groups to Build Community
Seven Tips for Getting More Out of LinkedIn
How to Be a LinkedIn Superstar by Larry Weintraub




November 5th, 2009 at 10:14 pm
That was a great read. I think it is a smart idea to never be afraid of asking people things. Regardless of how stupid you may think it is, you should still ask it.
November 6th, 2009 at 8:19 am
Kellie,
Yes, I completely agree.
November 6th, 2009 at 11:27 am
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November 9th, 2009 at 1:08 am
Very appreciate the ideas, as the say:”it’s never too old to learn”, so it’s better that we should not be hesitate to ask for recommendation, especially at work.
November 9th, 2009 at 1:53 pm
I agree entirely. People have always asked for recommendations. The vehicle for promoting them shouldn’t matter. Like you said, the requestee can always decline.
November 9th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
Recommendations are reasonable. Once received, it is necessary to follow it up and do one’s homework to evaluate the validity of all claims.
December 1st, 2009 at 1:26 pm
The idea of the media trinity is quickly gaining acceptance. Already agencies, clients and brands are rapidly expanding their view of media to include more than just display, or paid, media, and it’s causing a real shift in how marketing budgets are spent. Still, the case has to be made more often than you might think.
February 16th, 2010 at 1:56 pm
Some great advice thanks! I started using linkedin recently & really want to improve my profile. I will write recommendations and hope that people return the favour.